Dealing with the pain of a break up isn't easy. It fact, for many women it will be one of the most painful things they may ever have to go through in life. But it doesn't mean all hope is lost. You still may be able to get your ex boyfriend back. In this article we will take a look at how you can about doing this.
Tip #1: Recognize That You Made A Mistake
This might sound obvious, but it is the first step. The only person you should blame is yourself. Your ex boyfriend isn't perfect either, but blaming him for your mistakes won't get him back.
Tip #2: Give Him Time And Space
The odds are you want him back and you want him back now. Unfortunately, your going to have to give him some space and time to sort out his feelings. This will also give him a chance to see what life without you is like and how much he misses you. It's true that he might like being single again, but he might also find out that he really misses you.
Tip #3: Don't Tell Him You Have Changed
You can't force your ex boyfriend into believing that you have changed. He won't believe you. He needs to see it for himself rather then hear it coming directly from you.
Tip #4: Be A Positive Presence In His Life
When you see him do not get emotional over him. I know this is hard! Be positive and be the person that he fell in love with. Flirt with him, joke around, do put some boundaries on how far you will go.
At the end of the day you have to let him fall back in love with you again. He has to do this himself. He will have to see how good the two of you are together and then reflect back on the enjoyable moments you had together.
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