It is painful news to know that your girlfriend is cheating on you. But, it will be an equally embarrassing thing to confront her with a problem like this or if you are not sure that she is really doing so.
It is almost certain that she will have a cell phone. A mobile phone today, could be a top player, which could store evidences of a mucky deal left behind in the cell phone. One thing you should do is to check the call log of her phone. Check for the numbers, you are not familiar with and try to know, who were the callers. One way you can know is by using a different phone to call back. For sure the person on the other side will receive the call and you can ask who he or she is in a smart way without raising suspicion. And if you reach the voice mail, then that's a good opportunity, since the names and voice is on the phone. On this voice mail, try to find out the frequency of certain numbers, the calls made and the time of calls. Most of the suspicious calls come in the night, if your girlfriend does not stay with you or the times when she is away or if you stay together. But, you must be aware that cheaters are sharper. They can easily delete the numbers from the call log or put feminine names to their "other boys" numbers!
Another way to check her activities is on the Internet. If you know her passwords, before she suspects that you are checking, make use of these. Check the mails received or sent. If you don't have her password, invest in a key logger that will record all the keys typed on the computer. It will cost you around $40, but it will give you the evidence, you are looking for. If she is using social network sites, that's the best place to catch her. Somehow her guy will be sending her profile comments, which are public to many, or you can go to their sent messages, where not many know that the sent messages are recorded.
You can also follow her or hire a private detective. If she comes home an hour or so late than she used to, then watch her out near her place of work a few minutes earlier or an hour before her check out time and check her moves to see, with whom she moves out or whom she meets after that. You can get your friend's tainted car to get a clear view without being noticed. Take pictures where possible and follow them up to their destination. If they go to a hotel, try to get the room number and pay them a visit. You can do this with any other place too. If the houses have peephole, close it before knocking or make a call to her, while you are outside. You can feel the movements and the phone ringing. If she says she is not at that place, then confront her with the fact.
Just don't be quick to judge, before having enough evidence.
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