7 Tell Tale Signs Your Boyfriend Is Cheating On You

There are numerous signs that will let you suspect that your boyfriend is cheating on you. But here are the seven tell tale signs that you cannot afford to miss or ignore.

Sudden grooming changes: When your boyfriend all of a sudden decides that he wants to look better, then it mostly means more than a change of heart. This usually happens, when he wants to please someone else, who has come into his life and he wishes to influence her.

Acting distant: It is a very common thing for a guy to pull away from the lover, as soon as he gets close to someone else. He may not even be aware that this is happening to him. Unconsciously or consciously, he is slowly drawn to the newfound and his attachment increases day by day.

Getting defensive: It is a clear-cut sign that your boyfriend is dishonest, when out of the blue he gets self-protective, when you ask him questions that he never bothered about before. For example you may ask him a straightforward question like "darling why are you late tonight" and he goes on with a long explanation, how you should know that he works very hard and so on rather than giving a direct answer right away.

Insecurity in public: When you are out there in public, and you notice that he acts insecure, constantly glancing behind and sideways, that's an obvious sign. Take that as a hint that there is somebody in his life, to whom he has not told about you and the other would mind and question if she saw the two of you together.

 

Secrecy in phone calls: Nothing is more alarming than when his phone rings. He is kind of hesitant to answer the call and when he does, he will whisper softly and promises to return the phone call later. When this starts happening, you are almost sure that you are being cheated.

Irritability: In just about all cases of boyfriends cheating, there will be a certain alternation in behavior and you may observe that he starts to criticize you and find fault in most of the things you do. In a way, he feels this works for him, as it tends to justify his cheating mind. But beware of this behavior as in some men this can be extremely opposite, being overly nice and showering you with praises that you may even not deserve.

Being insensitive to your feelings: Perhaps this is the most obvious of all signs that you realize the love you share is fast becoming ineffective, since someone else has replaced your love for him. Your boyfriend may even start forgetting those plans and dates that you two held so dear, or call them off with no good reasons. All this happens, when he no more considers your feelings because another girl has occupied his mind. It could be worse, if you realize that he has not even bothered to invite you to the usual hangouts, which you used to visit earlier.

All these are tell tale signs that your boyfriend is cheating on you and that its time you approached him and openly discuss, what is really happening and decide whether to remain together or part ways.